Wednesday, November 4, 2009

Silence is the best Killer!


Sometimes we don't blurt out something or in other words stop complaining abt the mental disturbanc or differences we are having with our loved ones. The reason behind this may be that we are unable to make our point or the other person doesn't understand or may be v wud have a huge clash over it n hurt each other even more or it cud be the end !! yes the end of a long and in some cases life long relationship....Where the difference lies??is it our understaning??our perception??or simply we or the other person doesnt care?? there are an awful lot of reasons for that...As it is said Silent is the best Killer and Love hurts!! I agree with both the phrases as there is a hell lot of experience behind these statements and peoples' life long experiences ultimately helping them conclude these statements. The question i m still unable to resolve and is continuously pinching me is that ...shud v talk abt the differences we hav with someone???even if the other doesnt get our point and start complaining back to u that it's U who is responsible for all this.. i mean why shud v open the gates for the water to flow if all that is going to come back in the form of flood!!
Is keeping Silent the Best Option?? Still searching for a solution!!!!